Briahna Joy Gray on Instagram: "Is having boyfriend embarrassing? Are we living in an era of “heteropessimism”? Are women over marriage? These questions have gone viral in recent weeks as the country continues to grapple with changing gender norms and the effect the right wing radicalization of men has had on women’s’ attitudes toward marriage and child bearing. This week, a new study showing that, for the first time, female high school seniors were less interested in marriage than male seniors